Find My Charism
Considering a problem
You help someone see the important question beneath several competing concerns.
Wisdom
Helping someone find a faithful way forward in their actual circumstances.
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Understanding Wisdom
Wisdom helps people see a concrete situation in the light of faith and find a faithful way forward. The Holy Spirit can bring insight to a conversation that holds together Church teaching, the person’s real circumstances, and the good to be sought. Knowledge seeks and connects understanding; Wisdom attends especially to how it can guide action here. Good counsel listens, respects the person’s freedom, and recognizes when other guidance is needed.
Where you may recognize it
Consider the relationships and responsibilities already part of your life.
Finding a workable path
You bring faith and practical circumstances into the same conversation.
Offering counsel
You listen, name possibilities, and leave room for the other person’s responsibility and choice.
Jethro counsels Moses
The image at the top of this page shows Jethro, Moses’ father-in-law, advising him about the burden of hearing the people’s disputes alone. He proposes sharing responsibility so that the people can be served well.
The task is too heavy for you; you cannot do it alone. … Lighten your burden by letting them bear it with you!
Jethro sees both Moses’ exhaustion and the strain on the people waiting for him. He offers a way to share the burden, submitting the plan to God’s approval. Moses listens to his father-in-law and puts the advice into practice—a familiar reminder that wisdom can come through the people closest to us. Wisdom can serve in this way: recognizing what is being overlooked and helping someone find a faithful response that they and others can sustain.
More Scripture & Church teaching
1 Corinthians 12:4–11, 27–31
Paul names an expression of wisdom among the Spirit’s gifts, given for the community’s benefit.
Catechism 799–801
Charisms are gifts of the Holy Spirit for building up the Church and serving others. Love is their measure, and their discernment includes the guidance of the Church’s pastors.
Catechism 1806
Prudence means judging what is truly good in a concrete situation and how to pursue it. This virtue supports responsible counsel; it is not identical with a charism of wisdom.
Catechism 1830–1832
The Catechism names wisdom among the seven gifts that help Christians follow the Holy Spirit. A charism of wisdom serves others through the insight a person shares.
Wisdom in service of others
These ministries and programs may offer ways to serve through Wisdom. Speak with parish staff about where help is needed, how to prepare, and the parish’s volunteer process.
Adult faith formation
Serve with the parish formation team, helping adults connect Catholic teaching with their lives through studies, parish courses and discussion groups.
Marriage and family accompaniment
Serve with the parish’s marriage and family-life team. Prepared sponsor or mentor couples may accompany engaged couples, while other volunteers help with hospitality and practical arrangements.
Bereavement support
Accompany people grieving a death through the parish’s bereavement ministry. Catholic programs such as Seasons of Hope offer Scripture, prayer and companionship.
Resources for learning and preparation
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The Catechism in a Year with Fr. Mike Schmitz
A guided journey through the Catechism of the Catholic Church, connecting Catholic teaching with Scripture and daily life, offered by Ascension.
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Word on Fire study programs
Explore Catholic faith through CATHOLICISM, The Mass and other studies from Bishop Robert Barron and Word on Fire, with materials for personal reflection or group discussion.
As you discern
Bring these experiences to prayer, Mass and the sacraments, and conversation with a priest or trusted guide in the faith. Look over time for love of God and neighbor, faithfulness to Church teaching, and the good of those you serve. Joy, difficulty, and others’ feedback can help you recognize patterns. Attend to insight that helps someone act faithfully in their actual circumstances while remaining responsible for their choice. If no example comes to mind, begin with the experience suggested below.
Recall a conversation that helped someone see a faithful way forward. What did listening reveal beneath the immediate problem?
When your first advice is incomplete or another person’s expertise is needed, how do you recognize that and help the person find better guidance?
Something to try: When someone welcomes counsel, listen to their circumstances before proposing a solution. Consider possible paths in the light of faith and name any need for other expertise. Leave the choice with them, then ask later which part of the conversation helped and what you learned from the outcome.
Bring this to prayer
Saint Thérèse of Lisieux
Come, Holy Spirit. Give me patience to listen and understanding shaped by your love.
May the counsel I offer help others find a faithful way forward without taking their responsibility from them.
Saint Thérèse of Lisieux, pray for me.
Through Christ our Lord. Amen.
Thérèse entered the Carmelite convent in Lisieux, France, at fifteen and died at twenty-four. In her autobiography, Story of a Soul, she described her “little way”: trusting God and offering him the small acts of daily life. Her wisdom helped people see a path toward Christ within ordinary responsibilities, making a deep truth of the faith understandable and practical.
More about her life ↗